One of the easiest things in the world is to become a fault-finder. However, life can be (1) ______ when you are not busy finding fault with it.
    Several years ago I (2) ______ a letter from seventeen-year-old Kerry, who described herself as a world-class fault-finder, almost always(3) ______ by things. People were always doing things that annoyed her, and (4) ______ was ever good enough. She was highly self-critical and also found fault with her friends. She became a really(5) ______ person.
    Unfortunately, it took a horrible accident to change her(6) ______ Her best friend was seriously hurt in a car crash. What made it almost(7) ______ to deal with was that the day before the(8) ______ , Kerry had visited her friend and had spent the whole time criticizing her(9) ______ of boyfriends, the way she was living, the way she related to her mother, and various other things she felt she needed to (10) ______ It wasn't until her friend was badly hurt that Kerry became (11) ______ her habit of finding fault. Very quickly, she learned to appreciate life rather than to (12) ______ everything so harshly (刻薄) . She was able to transfer her new wisdom to other parts of her(13) ______ as well.
    Perhaps most of us aren't as extreme at fault-finding,(14) ______ when we're honest, we can be sharply(15) ______ of the world. I'm not suggesting you (16) ______ problems, or that you pretend things are(176) ______ than they are, but simply that you learn to allow things to be as they are(18) ______ most of the time, and especially when it's not a really big(19) ______ .
    Train yourself to "bite your tongue" , and with a little(20) ______ , you'll get really good at letting things go. And when you do, you'll get back your enthusiasm and love for life.

   Have your parents ever inspected your room to see if you cleaned it properly? Imagine having your entire houses, garage, and yard inspected at any time -- with no warning. Inspections were a regular part of lighthouse (灯塔) living, and a keeper's reputation depended on results. A few times each year, an inspector arrived to look over the entire light station. The inspections were supposed to be a surprise, but keeper sometimes had advance notice.
    Once lighthouses had telephones, keepers would call each other to warn that the inspector was approaching. After boats began flying special flags noting the inspector aboard, the keeper's family made it a game to see who could notice the boat first. As soon as someone spotted the boat, everyone would do last-minute tidying and change into fancy clothes. The keeper then scurried to put on his dress uniform and cap. Children of keepers remember inspectors wearing white gloves to run their fingers over door frames and windowsills looking for dust.
    Despite the serious nature of inspections, they resulted in some funny moments. Betty Byrnes remembered when her mother did not have time to wash all the dishes before an inspection. At the time, people did not have dishwashers in their homes. In an effort to clean up quickly, Mrs. Byrnes tossed all the dishes into a big bread pan, covered them with a cloth and stuck them in the oven. If the inspector opened the oven door, it would look like bread was baking. he never did.
    One day, Glenn Furst’s mother put oil on the kitchen floor just before the inspector entered their house. Like floor wax, the oil made the floors shiny and helped protect the wood. This time, though, she used a little too much oil. When the inspector extended his hand to greet Glenn's mother, he slipped on the freshly oiled surface. "He came across that floor waving his arms like a young bird attempting its first flight," Glenn late wrote. After he steadied himself, he shook Glenn's mother's hand, and the inspection continued as though nothing had happened.